It makes me angry everytime when I heard the F word. Yes, it's the truth. Every single day people say it, although that's not what they are feeling. They are not telling the truth. I guess you know the F@#$ word that I am talking about the word FINE.
Stop saying the Fine word. If you're not fine just say it, you feel like crap. If you are feeling amazing, then say it you are feeling amazing. Imagine if you just lose your job, and people ask how you doing? and you say "I am FINE", really, you are?. Another example "How you doing? I am fine. Really? dragging around those extra forty pounds. You are Fine? I don't think so. Please, be honest with yourself. If you are feeling exhausted, terrible, down, just tell others about how you are feeling. People will get to you, trying to help you. And you start to discuss about it and then you will feel better.
The other consequences about saying you are fine is that you say it to yourself. The word fine itself describe that you don't have to do anything about it. We all want the same thing in this life. Being Alive, and you describe being alive as fine?? We all have the dream that we want to achieve it. And when we can't get it, we said the word fine not having it to ourselves. It means that we stop pushing ourselves, we got stuck in our life, we stop stretching our live, we didn't grow up as individual anymore. Scientists have calculated the odds we are being born, that is 1:400,000,000,000. Isn't that fantastic? for the odd of 1:400,000,000,000 so you are not fine, you are fantastic. The word fine itself like the snooze button in our alarm. I bet that the first decision in your life every morning is you push the snooze button, and then you go back to sleep. It's not good to lie to yourself or others with the word Fine, stop saying it!
So tomorrow morning, when the alarm ring you stop pressing the snooze button. Take your sheet off, and wake up. The first five seconds you will feel sleepy and cold, but after that after you get up you will feel amazing. Then apply it when you want to chase your dream, when you feel like you don't want to make any movement about it. Stop saying "Fine, if I don't or can't have it" leave the snooze button and do something about it. At first we feel that we don't like it but at the end we will get a reward from it. But that's what "Adult" mean being parent of yourself, you doing things that you don't like but it will get you to a better place. Not a good place, not an average place. But a BETTER PLACE.
In the end, I hope that you get what I am trying to say. Stop saying the Fine word, it's not good to yourself. When you want something, you go get it period. If you can't have it, don't say the fine word. You get back up, and push yourself. It doesn't matter how you start it, but how you FINISH.
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Stop saying the Fine word. If you're not fine just say it, you feel like crap. If you are feeling amazing, then say it you are feeling amazing. Imagine if you just lose your job, and people ask how you doing? and you say "I am FINE", really, you are?. Another example "How you doing? I am fine. Really? dragging around those extra forty pounds. You are Fine? I don't think so. Please, be honest with yourself. If you are feeling exhausted, terrible, down, just tell others about how you are feeling. People will get to you, trying to help you. And you start to discuss about it and then you will feel better.
The other consequences about saying you are fine is that you say it to yourself. The word fine itself describe that you don't have to do anything about it. We all want the same thing in this life. Being Alive, and you describe being alive as fine?? We all have the dream that we want to achieve it. And when we can't get it, we said the word fine not having it to ourselves. It means that we stop pushing ourselves, we got stuck in our life, we stop stretching our live, we didn't grow up as individual anymore. Scientists have calculated the odds we are being born, that is 1:400,000,000,000. Isn't that fantastic? for the odd of 1:400,000,000,000 so you are not fine, you are fantastic. The word fine itself like the snooze button in our alarm. I bet that the first decision in your life every morning is you push the snooze button, and then you go back to sleep. It's not good to lie to yourself or others with the word Fine, stop saying it!
So tomorrow morning, when the alarm ring you stop pressing the snooze button. Take your sheet off, and wake up. The first five seconds you will feel sleepy and cold, but after that after you get up you will feel amazing. Then apply it when you want to chase your dream, when you feel like you don't want to make any movement about it. Stop saying "Fine, if I don't or can't have it" leave the snooze button and do something about it. At first we feel that we don't like it but at the end we will get a reward from it. But that's what "Adult" mean being parent of yourself, you doing things that you don't like but it will get you to a better place. Not a good place, not an average place. But a BETTER PLACE.
In the end, I hope that you get what I am trying to say. Stop saying the Fine word, it's not good to yourself. When you want something, you go get it period. If you can't have it, don't say the fine word. You get back up, and push yourself. It doesn't matter how you start it, but how you FINISH.
Follow Instagram : Juenot
#Obrigado #MelRobbins #TedXSF #Turasmilis
Sometimes the word FINE is the best answer for everything.
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